Are you ready to learn new ways to better help couples prepare for marriage?

Are you ready to learn new ways to better help couples prepare for marriage?

Register to attend the upcoming PREPARE ENRICH Facilitator Certification Training to learn new ways to help couples before they say,.. “I Do.”

This training is open to clergy, counselors, therapists, and mental health professionals and married couples who are committed in helping to equip others.

Cost to Register

$195 per person

$275 for married couples

$125 Refresher (No kit Needed)

$175 Refresher (New Kit Needed)

*(Prices include Lunch)

Must Pre-Register & secure seat by Saturday April 23, 2022

Visit the link below to register

https://app.prepare-enrich.com/workshop/31913

PREPARE ENRICH Facilitator Certification Training

Saturday May 7, 2022

8:30 AM—4:00 PM

New Direction Christian Church

6120 Winchester Road

Memphis, TN. 38115

Trainings are open to clergy, counselors, therapists, and mental health professionals.

Cost to Register

$195 per person

$275 for married couples

$125 Refresher (No kit Needed)

$175 Refresher (New Kit Needed)

*(Prices include Lunch)

Must Pre-Register & secure seat by Saturday April 23, 2022

Visit the link below to register

https://app.prepare-enrich.com/workshop/31913

Arnita L. Fields
Author, Christian Counselor
PREPARE ENRICH Trainer

As a Prepare/Enrich Trainer, I can help you become a Certified Facilitator of the most trusted relationship assessment, so you can be confident you’re focusing on the areas that really matter. Because your time with each couple is limited, the tools you provide can help their marriage last a lifetime. Contact me for more information by emailing arnitafields@yahoo.com.
 

16 Types of Grief People Experience

As I opened my social media this afternoon, several posts were highlighted, and I began to pray for those dealing with the various types of grief from the loss of loved ones to those grieving the recent local and national tragedies.

At one time or another we have all have dealt with some form of grief over the course of the last 21 months. When it’s experienced, grief can sometimes feel like a weighty crushing process, especially when it hits us personally and without any warning. However, even in the midst of the pain, shock and loss, the Word of God reveals we can yet find hope.

So, what is hope and what does it look like when you are in a place of grieving? Hope is defined as “a feeling of trust.” For the times we find ourselves in a place of grieving, it’s important to note who or what we place our trust in. While our family, friends and loved ones are there to comfort us in time of need, it’s good to know there is someone greater we can cry out to and place our hope. The Sovereign God is a present help. He is Jehovah Shammah, our God who is always there.


Psalm 16:9 – “Therefore my heart is glad, and my glory rejoices; my flesh also will rest in hope.”

Psalm 31:24 – “Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord.”

Psalm 62:5 – “Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from Him.”

Psalm 71:5 – “For you are my hope, O Lord God; You are my trust from my youth.”

Psalm 119:147 – “I rise before the dawning of the morning, and cry for help; I hope in your word.”

Romans 5:5 – “Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured in our hearts by the Holy spirit who was given to us.”

Romans 15:13 – “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

To help us better recognize the various types of grief, listed below are 16 types a person may possibly encounter and experience.

1. Normal Grief – The emotional distress that accompanies a trauma, such as death or other loss.

2. Complicated Grief – The type of grief that worsens over time.

3. Traumatic Grief – The grief that you feel after the sudden or unexpected loss of a loved one.

4. Chronic Grief – A grief that does not subside.

5. Anticipatory Grief – The grief you feel when you are waiting for your loved one to pass.

6. Disenfranchised Grief – Deep grief over the loss of a relationship that is outside the typical family structure or other recognized relationships.

7. Distorted Grief – May give you feelings of guilt and anger.

8. Exaggerated Grief – Start out as normal grief but grow with intensity as time passes.

9. Masked Grief – When experienced, you may not even be aware that symptoms such as anger or impulsive behavior are related to a loss.

10. Inhibited Grief – Can manifest in the form of chronic headaches, stomach pains, or even muscle and body aches.

11. Collective Grief – When grief affects a whole community, city, country, or even the world.

12. Cumulative Grief – When a current loss may dredge up feelings of a loss you have suffered in the past.

13. Prolonged Grief – When normal grief last for 12 months or longer.

14. Abbreviated Grief – A short lived but bona fide grief

15. Delayed Grief – When your grief may be postponed for a matter of weeks, months and sometimes years.

16. Absent Grief – Where you may show few or no signs of grieving.

If you are currently experiencing a loss of any kind, I pray that the peace and comfort of God to begin to fill your heart with hope. May His love cover you as you move through the grieving process.

If at any time you feel overwhelmed in your grief and find it hard to cope, please seek assistance from a counselor or mental health professional in your area. You may also call the National Grief Hotline by dialing (844) 274 – 6154 for immediate response and assistance.

Listed, are several articles & resources to also help you to process and move through grief:

https://www.griefresourcenetwork.com/crisis-center/hotlines/ – Grief Resource Network

https://www.mhanational.org/bereavement-and-grief – Mental Health America

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/grief – Psychology Today

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understand-other-people/202111/how-manage-dramatically-different-holiday-season -Psychology Today

Blessings,
Arnita L. Fields
December 11, 2021

References:
16 Ways People Grieve Information Credit – http://www.usurnsonline.com
Definition of Hope – http://www.languages.oup.com

NEW BOOK – S.T.I.R. Spiritual Trauma Intensive Recovery is now available

2 Timothy 1:6-7 (NKJV) “Therefore I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

Are you a ministry leader dealing with spiritual burnout and in need of emotional support and healing?

Receive the recharge you need

S.T.I.R.Spiritual Trauma Intensive Recovery is a new ministry program created to offer emotional and spiritual support for leaders desiring personal revival.

This six-week, facilitator-led, intensive course will guide wounded ministry leaders from a place of frustration, complacency & burnout into a place of spiritual recovery, restoration, and renewed focus in Christ.

S.T.I.R Spiritual Trauma Intensive Recovery is now available on these online retailers –

Smashwords – https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1118888

Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/…/ref-dp_byline_cont_pop_ebooks_1

Barnes and Noble – https://ww-w.barnesandnoble.com/…/stir…/1140573062

***Available soon on the following – Apple, Gardner’s Extended Retail, Kobo, Odilo and Scribd.

Unity Three Publications-How to Write and Self Publish Your Book

Event Information

Greetings from Unity Three Publications! This online course is for aspiring authors who are ready to start on their publishing journey.

About this Event

Greetings from Unity Three Publications!

This online course is for aspiring authors who are ready to start on their publishing journey, also for those who may have begun writing their book this year and not quite sure about the next step.

In this 3 hour course for unpublished authors, you will learn vital keys on how to self publish your book from start to finish.

If you desire to become a published author, make an investment in your future and sign up today.

This online course will be taught by Arnita L. Fields. A (PDF) of the course syllabus and outline will be provided to all registered participants. Course link will be emailed 3 days prior to event.

22 Wisdom Keys: Reflections of a Modern Day Proverbs 31 Wife Anthology

The first book in the Wisdom Keys Book Series, 22 Wisdom Keys: Reflections of a Modern Day Proverbs 31 Wife Anthology is a powerful and engaging read written by modern day wives from various walks of life who have been married fourteen or more years. The contributing authors in this anthology each share a personal refection and words of wisdom based on the twenty-two passages of scripture from Proverbs 31:10-31. This book and combined journal will encourage and also challenge women to openly embrace this divine biblical blueprint and make it their own.

Contributing authors in this anthology include: Dr. Malissa Barbosa, Carla Y. Nix, Brenda J. Nichols, Cheranissa D. Roach, and Carmen Taylor-Clemons

Publication Date – May 30, 2015

Prayer of Release & Prophetic Declaration

PRAYER OF RELEASE

Father God we come before you now and we ask that you forgive us for our sin of walking in the way of religion and not in relationship with you. We thank you for this time of correction and healing as you make our heart pliable to do your holy will. Father you are the potter and we are the clay, we are the sheep of your pasture and we repent for allowing ourselves to follow the voice of the world.

Heavenly Father, we invite you into every aspect of out lives and ask that you cut out all that’s not of you and we also ask that you align and set in order only those things which pertain to your divine will & purpose for our lives.

We rejoice in the fact that you are a God of a mercy and we thank you with hearts of gratitude for how you continue to woo us and love on us despite how we have treated you and your people. Father, today we choose to love you back and truly show not only with our lips but also with our hearts that we belong to you, spirit, soul and body. Our desire is to be your true representatives in the earth., and we earnestly wait in anticipation for the great harvest of souls to come that we may disciple them with pure motives.

Thank you, Father God for helping us to drop the bottle of immaturity, religion and indifference so we can truly walk upright as your holy and dearly beloved children. We release now our past to you and make an exchange for our glorious future walking out the rest of our days as true Disciples of Christ. Amen & Amen.

PROPHETIC DECLARATION

I decree and declare that the people of God will rise up and come forth as a unified army in these last days. I decree and declare that we will die to our flesh and will stand cheek to cheek and breast to breast in agape love. I decree and declare that we are fitly joined together and operating as a well oiled machine for the kingdom of God.

I decree and declare we are no longer children tossed to and fro by every wind of doctrine but we are students of your divine word and we are able to eat and digest strong meat. I decree and declare our eyes are fixed and focused on Jesus our soon and coming King, and our desire is to be pleasing and Holy to you Father God for which this is our reasonable service. I decree and declare that we will bear good fruit and will walk as your true ambassadors in the earth.

Father thank you for the Body of Christ, I accept and receive what you have made available for us. Thank you for your divine alignment and order in each of our lives. Thank you for extending your hand and showering us with your grace and mercy. Thank you for the opportunity to get back on track to be restored and transformed so we may truly represent you in all that we say and do.

 

Originally scribed and published December 31, 2011 in the book – “Drop that Bottle and Pick up a Fork! Poetry, Prophetic Revelation & the Word of God” (Holy Poetry Publications)

When Women Connect Anthology

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Stories of Extraordinary Friendships; Connections A Stepping Into Victory Compilation, Volume 2

RELEASE DATE: September 18, 2018

Our lives are shaped by the women we come in contact with throughout our lives. These women can be our mothers, aunts, grandmothers, sisters, friends or co-workers. Many women are wounded by the ugly, shallow conflicts that burst forth from other women who’ve let their own insecurities rule their behavior. Unfortunately, once pain is inflicted, sometimes grudges, mistrust and unforgiveness reign too long, not allowing for the chance for deeper connections.

When Women Connect strives to highlight and encourage women to reach for deeper connections in their lives. In Part One, the co-authors share stories of extraordinary connections that led to unlikely friendships and unforgettable mentors. For women who are seeking ways to make better connections, co-authors from Part Two offer advice that can transcend any place, whether it be home, church, or work.

 

Wisdom Keys Book Series

Unity Three Publications presents……Wisdom Keys Book Series. Look for book #4 Spiritual Trauma (Fall) 2017.

Book Synopsis

Are you still seeking peace in your journey as a Christian?

Do you desire for God to use you in a greater capacity, yet you still are bound by secret pain you’ve experienced from a past spiritual trauma?

Have you found you have not been able to move forwardin your relationship with God because something from the past is holding you back?

Spiritual Trauma: Wisdom Keys to Help You Emotionally Heal after a Spiritual Crisis is written to help encourage as well as challenge the heart of people who have experienced spiritual trauma at various stages of their walk with Christ, and are struggling with emotional pain.

In this book, readers will find biblical illustrations along with a section for answering personal reflection questions to help assist them in finally obtaining the emotional healing that Christ has already paid the price for.

 

Interview on Challenges of faith radio 11/8/2020

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